| Over the weekend my family and I went to a lecture on The Cultivation of our Children...MashAllah it was really benificial. One point that really hit home was that children are either a blessing or a curse...That is sooo true...It depends on the upbringing and education of our children....Truly they are the children of today but the Adults of tomorrow. We as parents should really watch what we instill into our children or what we don't instill in them.. My son watches my husband and I like a hawk..Although he's on 3 months I watch what i say and do in front of him..I wan't him to be better than what his father and I are. I don't wan't him to pick up any of our bad traits and shortcomings that we may have...(may Allah forgive us for them Ameen).That reminds me of a situation that happened when my cousin was visiting my mom and I and she was telling her daughter to shake he butt...at 2 years old...SUBHANALLAH..may Allah guide her to islam....Children are reflection of theyr'e parents...so cultivate them to be better than us Labels: children, cultivation, kids |